Posted on December 30th, 2015 by wombwithaviewblog.com

One hormonal mama (self-proclaimed) wrote me to ask about The Nub Theory. If you want to know all about it, too, read on!

Mom’s Email Regarding The Nub Theory

hormonal mama:  Hello!! 🙂 I just wanted to let you know that your blog has been a complete saviour to me and my sanity over the past few nights. It is brilliant and informative and just what I needed in my hormonal state.

I have one question that I have been searching the web for a definitive answer to, and I was hoping you could shed some much needed light.

We had our 12 Week NT scan, and the US machine seemed to be a LOT better than the photos I have seen posted, videos I have watched, etc. We could see extraordinary detail of the baby. The sonographer was checking all the usual parts and suddenly without warning he showed us the perfect potty shot (I was 12w1d). Now I know from reading that people say they all look the same at this stage. But what I cannot get over was how much the image showed a perfect little penis poking out the top of a round bulbous structure.

I’ve googled and you-tubed 12 Week girl vs boy potty shots, and I just cannot get a girl scan that looks like an actual penis.

I’m clinging to the smallest shred of hope that I may still get my girl after seeing this, but it was just so obvious and so so so clear.

Thank you so much in advance for any advice or insight you can give me. I’m so disappointed in myself for feeling gender disappointment. I didn’t realise how much I wanted a daughter (this is our last baby) until I saw that potty shot.

Please tell me honestly; I can take it!!

Yours very gratefully,
🙂

PS. I think what you are doing for ladies like me is fantastic. I cannot believe I found you after all my searching for answers! An actual professional who answers silly, hormonal women’s questions! Not a forum full of people who claim to know it all and actually know very little! 🙂

 

My Nub Theory Response

wwavb:  Thank you for all the nice things you’ve sent my way;) I appreciate it and am so happy you are enjoying reading my blog!

So, maybe you haven’t yet come across my posts on the subject. Click away! Boys and girls can look EXACTLY alike early on.

The links below will give you more information:

http://wombwithaviewblog.com/early-gender-pics/

Check out the links below for my images of fetal sex which are textbook, classic, no-guesswork-needed images of both male and female sex later in pregnancy:

http://wombwithaviewblog.com/female-gender-on-ultrasound-2/
http://wombwithaviewblog.com/boy-girl/
http://wombwithaviewblog.com/boy-vs-girl/
http://wombwithaviewblog.com/twin-gender-update/
http://wombwithaviewblog.com/third-trimester-male-gender/

All that said, it’s okay to have a preference, but we all get what we need in the end. Having another boy means you needed one another for whatever reason! I hope you’ll subscribe and keep reading at wombwithaviewblog.com😉

Best wishes!
wwavblogger, RDMS

 

Second Nub Theory Email

hormonal mama: Thank you for replying. I’m so grateful! I have posted a link to your blog on our pregnancy group page. I hope it gives some other ladies peace of mind. (And a good giggle!)

I was recently told by an US tech in the group that there is a “nub” on my image. But I am notoriously useless at seeing them. Would you be able to confirm (or deny) if there are any genital parts visible? All I’m seeing is legs and a cord. I know the angle of the dangle is not a reliable theory (from your blog!) but for someone to say she can see it on my scan, it would be helpful if I knew if it was even visible!

Many thanks again and again 🙂

12wk fetus/nub theory

wwavb: Thanks so much! I, too, hope they get some useful info and a giggle, also;)

Does the sonographer in your group practice OB? Experienced or new to OB? I question because I entirely disagree. Every baby has a nub at this age, but one cannot be sure whether the nub represents boy or girl. If she is referring to the thing sticking out near the butt, that is too large to be the nub in question so my thought is it’s baby’s cord.

And actually, to see the nub, the plane needs to be centered between baby’s legs which means you would not be able to see the legs in this view. See the image below:

Suspected Baby Girl at 12wks/nub theory

No legs here! That could be a tiny foot way above the arrow, however.

This tells me the angle on your baby is not perfectly centered and is a little too far lateral whereby the leg is included in the image. I hope this makes sense! What a cutie, by the way;)

Keep me posted!
wwavblogger, RDMS

Final Advice?

It’s entirely possible to get excellent images at 12 Weeks, and this theory is reported to be about 73% correct. If you do the math, that leaves 20+% with potential gender guilt. I only recommend finding out on your NT scan if you can remain mentally neutral!

You can email me also, at wombviewerblog@gmail.com!

 

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Posted on October 20th, 2014 by wombwithaviewblog.com

Big Brother Meets Sibling at 11 Week Ultrasound

We all know kids say some of the funniest things! And when Mom is here for her 11 week ultrasound, Big Brother enters my ultrasound examination room with SO many questions!

We realize, as adults, just what a different perspective of life they have when, on hilarious occasion, they express to us these tiny pearls of realism in a way we never considered. They see the world in such simple terms; it’s unfortunate how we grow out of that over time. Oftentimes, we can actually see those mental wheels spinning, trying to make sense of the ultrasound monitor with their limited knowledge.

11 Week Ultrasound – A Kid’s Precious Perspective

So, last week as I am scanning Mom, Big Brother of about 6 or 7 is watching intently. He was very excited to see “his” baby and had lots of questions about everything I was pointing out to him. I typically start with the head, try to demonstrate a great profile of the face and, of course, I make a point to include hands and feet. It takes a minute for older children to really appreciate that it’s a baby on the monitor. After all, that black and white and gray blob on the screen doesn’t look like any baby they’ve ever seen!

If I can obtain a decent shot of the arm and hand, I’ll annotate on the monitor “hi!!” and tell the excited on-lookers that Baby is waving to them. It’s just one of those fun aspects of my job and the reactions are always cute.

11 week ultrasound

11 Week Fetus

As I did just that, Mom laughed. But Big Brother was quiet, and we could tell he was deep in thought. After a few seconds he finally spoke up and asked, “Mom, the baby can already spell?!!”

Mom and I had a great laugh over that, and Big Brother was happy to learn that his baby wasn’t smarter than him just yet!

I would love to read YOUR funny stories.  Email me at wombviewerblog@gmail.com and tell me all about it!  Yours just may be my next post!

 

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